I've found my word for 2014.
I wasn't going to even pick one. If a word doesn't come up from the inside to define what I hope my year to be, then for goodness sake, don't force it. Who wants a "word" for the sake of a "word."
But finally it did come bubbling up and bursting out, and that word is . . .
S I M P L E.
Because when it comes to all things life, I will inevitably go for whatever is the most complicated, most amazing, most impressive, and that results in . . . most stressful.
That could be forced to work when I had unlimited time and energy (aka, single and childless!!), but now that I have limited resources by virtue of LIFE (!!), I am realizing that every single time I go for complicated, amazing and impressive, I am going to be cheating another critical area of my life . . . spouse, children, ministries, friends, creativity, or (for goodness sake) keeping my house clean!!
Every.....Single.....Time!
In real time, choosing simple looks like:
Choosing to make simple and quick Italian Chicken Rice Soup for company,
instead of Braised Brisket in Bourbon Peach Glaze
::sigh::
or crocheting a Simple Scarf,
instead of leaping into making the Most Gorgeous Throw I've Ever Seen.
::sniff::
Or being content with Simple, Real Flowers in Bottles on the shower table,
without having to add an Explosion of Handmade Tissue Blossoms up above.
::ahem::
I must remember that saying "No!" to complicated, amazing and impressive is always saying "Yes!" to peace, love and sanity.
And all by focusing on what is . . .
S I M P L E